Crazy Times

It has been crazy times for our group so far this fall and getting together each week has been a challenge. We've been able to meet a couple of times at night and it has been so nice to be able to talk and share without the kids running around. Speaking of kids, we are getting close to the end of our book, Grace Based Parenting. I have really enjoyed reading this book and the last chapter really convicted me. The author was discussing the importance of showing grace as children deal with difficult emotions. I think we all struggle with our kids making a big deal about something that seems so insignificant to us. But we have the passage of time and increased wisdom that comes with age to look back and realize the things that we had made a huge deal about as kids, really were not that big of a deal. I need to work on showing grace to my 5 year old when he gets really upset about a playdate being broken or his brother not sharing with him, etc. I need to shrink myself down to his size and see how the world looks like to him and see that the world can be very disappointing, scary, confusing and time seems to crawl by. A challenge indeed but an important one.

Grace and the Freedom to Be Vulnerable

Okay, so this is my first post. I tend to think on things and chew on them and never get around to posting. This book has spoken volumes to me of the grace that God gives each of us. I have found myself basking in His grace as I am striving to learn how to raise my son in God's grace. This book fits in to other things that I have been focused on, all pointing to the amazing grace of God.

This chapter was no exception. It speaks of the freedom to be vulnerable and be completely who you are and still receive a secure and unconditional love.
"One of the great things about God's grace is the safe haven it offers to a transparent heart. He doesn't require masks in His throne room." All to often I find myself wearing a mask, trying to somehow look better or different than who I am. I'm sure others have the same act of putting on a facade. "Jesus makes people feel comfortable even when he catches them without their makeup. When circumstances scrub off the layers of their self-confidence, and their shortcomings wash away the foundation of their self-righteousness, Jesus isn't appalled by the blemishes he finds underneath. There's no sin too bad, no doubt too big, no question too hard, and no heart too broken for His grace to deal with." This grace is a tremendous comfort to me. I can be free to be who I am.

It goes on to say that we are the gatekeepers of His grace for our children. If we can somehow mirror the grace that God gives us, our children will be better prepared to receive the saving grace that only God can give. By allowing our children to be who they are and loving them through it we can reflect the grace of God that lifts us up to him constantly.

from head to heart

So.... long time no post. Have a feeling that this will end up being kind of a stream of consciousness thing --- so bear w/ me, or feel free to skip :)

Group meetings have been thin lately, it's rough sometimes with everyone being so busy. I really feel that we are pulled away from what we need most - I know that it is how we all feel. Praying for the mommas who are overbooked - AND praying that I can continue balancing it all.

Interesting conversation this evening. In this book, Kimmel continually points to the concept that we need to be making an effort to live grace out with our children. NOT just refer to the grace of Christ's sacrifice and then water down our faith to a legalistic checklist.

This started a conversation on how do we get this concept of in the heart across to preschoolers. Currently my boy is in AWANA's w/ his gma. This is an awesome opportunity for him to begin early trainings in basic beliefs. BUT - how can I bridge the concept of verse memorization to "hiding his word in our hearts"???? I keep trying to think of ways to show grace to him - not just in how I deal with him - but with how i deal with others. That is my struggle.

Also, I feel that as I read this book it is a method I should use in my classroom with my students. PROBLEM BEING - I can't quite make the connections w/ verses with them. I try to use accepted sayings of culture --- based off of Christianity - but not quite Bible quoting. It's rough though. I see how badly the kids need grace, love and understanding - but at the same time, I am not able to draw a line when they violate God's law - just the schools. It's a struggle, one I've mentioned before - I'm working so hard and trying to be the best momma possible, and I see these children and wonder where their parents are - do their parents know how rude, crude, and off their kids can be. It's not necessarily things to call home about - but still not what I would want my child doing or saying.

The other day I overheard a teacher talking, in speaking with a student he mentioned she should show him respect --- as she walked away he heard her say "I don't respect my mom ==== why should I respect you". Where have the parents gone? Why are they so absent from their children's lives, and why oh why do they not realize how badly they are needed?????